I have been reading the book “The Five Love Languages” The Secret To Love That Last. I think it is a decent book, I personally believe that people have so many layers to them. Sometimes that “layer” is not revealed until we are married, one word or action will challenge your marriage or relationship. Then we get that “dear in the headlights look” that questions the person or the marriage. Time for a Q-TIP break which means simply for us to “QUIT TAKING IT PERSONALLY” a famous quote by Sylvester Coleman.